|Self-portrait by Vincent Van Gogh|
/ Image part of public domain
Our posts, pictures, videos and the things that we “like” on Facebook may end up being the windows to our short existence, especially if these posts are displayed for the public to see. Anyone can sum up our existence based only on our several posts and photos. Facebook is a great medium to keep in touch with friends and family members, strengthen bonds, share useful information and even in some cases, help people in need or support and promote a social cause for the benefit of disenfranchised individuals. On the other hand, Facebook can also be a medium to destroy a person’s reputation and weaken bonds between family members and friends.
The things we post in Facebook is not entirely true, if they were, they may only be true at a certain time. We post how sad we are today, but it does not mean we are perennially depressed. Our updates are just snapshots of our lives but our lives are complicated and people change, sometimes totally. Facebook cannot capture the details of our existence, much less our own personal purpose in life.
All of this made me wonder. If I died today, would I be happy about the things that I posted on Facebook? Would I be still proud of all my tweets? If I did not have time to delete embarrassing posts and compromising photos, would it be all right for me if people make false assumptions about my life? Perhaps, it would be all right if I were a celebrity, but I am an ordinary bloke. Who would defend me in case some random Facebook visitor lambast me after I am dead and buried. Yes, we have friends who know us well, but will that be enough? How about you? If you died today, would you be proud of your last Facebook update?
Oops, time to go, I got to delete some “scandalous” pictures.
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